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Give Yourself Permission

Hello Beautiful People!! 
I hope All is well with you. Life has been super busy for me preparing for my little bundle of joy and just adjusting to life as a whole. Its been quite the ride, Ive had to let some folks off the train and Ive pick up new passengers. Im super excited about the future no matter how many obstacles I had to climb to get here. Conquering life obstacles is what makes you Happy times even more special. Ive learn how to give my self permission to be happy, to let go and to let God and its absolutely wonderful. I hope you enjoy my brief insight on life and the importance of living for today. Here Goes :) 

As we Live & grow there are tons of things we must leave behind........

 I saw a photo of an old friend today and immediately I remembered the good times we used to have. I remembered how during those times we were close friends that it felt life would always be that way. I instantly missed my old friend and I smiled. Life’s circumstances has changed our paths. Although we have a good history and had many great times, destiny has removed us from each other’s present. We didn’t know that this was coming but I’m thankful that we were both mature enough to not put a leash or requirement on the other which would have kept us from succeeding.

 People places things experiences will change for the rest of your life. Sometimes we have the urge too look back, the urge to reconnect, the urge to relive. What I’ve found is , every moment of your life is made for a specific time. Be careful not to let the “re” keep you from the amazingness of the now! Those same people places & things that may have been amazing or horrible we’re present day at some point in time but today they are memories. When it comes to your memories do not become a hostages. Driving looking in your rear view mirror guarantees a crash. Living is a continued process. It’s a action word it’s a active thing. Ask your self are you living for today? Are you living trying to recreate a feeling , a moment , a relationship/friendship that has sense evolved?  Realize this, Evolution will never stop. The same things that you maybe trying to go back too or recreate aren’t even the same anymore. (Sorry) 

Memories are beautiful they make us laugh, they make us think, they even teach us lessons. The problem comes in when we chase them thinking they will come back alive the same way they were . We don’t think about the effect time has on things. People have change from day to day, seasons change every year, the world as a whole changed constantly, it may be for good or the bad. Those  things that your chasing are only putting you into a maze that’s leading you to no ending. It’s like sitting in a rocking chair and rocking as hard as you can hoping the chair will move.  So I say to you today give yourself your live a fighting chance to be great. Use what you need from your experiences.  Be careful  not to be stuck in thinking just because it happened that way that time it will always be that way. 

Grow with out apology! Be great in the here and Now!  Don’t be afraid to go forward out of fear of the unknown . We are born with a blank slate, life teaches us many lessons. Don’t stop your Greatness because of fear of maybe doing it alone , or in a different place or even with people that you didn’t expect to do it thing with. Everyone of us has something this world needs or we would be here. Purpose is in your Pulse use it ! 

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