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Help Dilemma

Guilty!!!!  Being a fixer can be a great thing and it can be a counter productive thing all at the same time. If you are used to being the person who is put in the position too handle everything. Even put your self in the position without being ask. Sometimes you play the role of parent  and don't even have any children. Becoming the responsible sibling when your not the oldestor an only child.  That person who is readily available to help. Taking up the slack always no matter how your left feeling. I learned we can become addicted to almost anything! I had become addicted to  helping. I had no idea that I have an addiction to helping. Don't get me wrong it's great to help others by all means but not at the expense of hurting yourself. Or to the point that you resent others for not reciprocating things the way you do. I am the type of person when faced with a challenge I attack it head on and am usually successful in tackling that challenge. In doing so I sometimes r...