My Post today is inspired by a recent awareness. This is not statistical facts but a small survey of people that I come in close contact with in my life. I can say that there was a time in my life where I had deep desires to want too connect with people. I considered myself a misfit didn't feel I fit in anywhere not even with my own family. Thankfully I handled that alone time well, see I was a kid who had great imagination. I would day dream for hours, I would read books and literally would feel connected the characters. I would dream about the future and design how my life should be. That got me through my awkward adolescent years.
Fast forward too today....
I have noticed a trend like I said with people I know and through mutual acquaintances etc, that there is a large amount of people who fear being alone. There may be a number of reason on how and why they have gotten too this place. The fear is becoming detrimental too the point where people are not living happy lives because of the choice in poison they use to not be alone to not hear the silence.
For example, the woman and or man who stays in a relationship that is literally destroying there self esteem, self worth hey even there bank account all in the name of not being alone.
The person who is afraid to sit with there own thoughts in fear they may have to deal with a trauma the have been through.
The person who wants to control or is being controlled by others around them in order to not get hurt in a situation which in turn can leave them in silence.
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The person who drowns there sorrows in alcohol, drugs , or even sexual acts just to fill a void and again not deal with what is present in front of them.
The giver who gives and gives buying false loyalty just to feel like people like them.
The person who hangs on to friendships that have turned into dictatorships, and the person is clearly using them just because they have known the person a long time. There afraid to not have any friends.
My heart goes out too all the people who are afraid of silence. Who have been tricked into thinking silence is a bad thing. Silence is where God does his best work. All the noise we allow in our lives a merely distractions. Distractions can keep you so wrapped up that you can't move forward. Why because you are busy looking backwards or walking in a circle.
My prayer is that all people would love themselves enough to get through those tough moments. Too push through it, do the work and when your done see it's well worth it. Challenge yourself to sit through those weird uncomfortable moments they will pass. Speak up for you self, and let others who are not treating you like your valuable know that you won't take there mistreatment anymore! Deal with the loss you suffered, cry, scream, break something if you have too. What ever you do please don't stop living. Stop being a bad friend to yourself ! Stop settling for less! Stop making excuses for the others wrong treatment towards you! Stop the obsessive use of drugs and alcohol. Having meaning less sex trying to connect Just STOP ! PLEASE !! Yes it will be a process, Yes but you can do it believe me ! The same God that got you through your last trial, can most certainly get you through this one and the ones after it !
Do it for yourself you deserve! We are all born SPECIAL there is no one else in the world who is like you! You are amazing, beautiful, intelligent, resourceful, energetic, lovable and chosen. We are all chosen for something special the moment we are conceived. Be the Best you can too yourself for yourself and sometimes by yourself. For your future! For your Life ! For those who will follow your foot steps. Embrace the silence face the fear and you will see all that you have been missing. Shhhhh Brilliance is being born .... IT inside of you !
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