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Moving is a project in a half !! As always there's is always a lesson to be learned. You never know how much stuff you have until your packing too move! I'm tired just thinking about it ! You also never know how much worthless things your holding on too. Those things that are tucked way in the back of the closet or balled up in a bag. I realized this very same concept can be applied too oneself. You never know how much stuff you carry until it has too move. We carry things that are balled up tucked away hidden most of the time unrecognized. Some we recognize we hold on too it because it's become apart of a routine. Did you know you could develope a unhealthy routine and that be your normal? There are so many people in unhealthy relationship,professions, friendships, and state of mind. Some people don't feel normal unless they have some sort of drama or anxiety going on in there life. Some people don't feel love unless it abusive. Some work in a profession that goes against all of there morals, and beliefs. Some get free from there bondage but continue to return too it. Why do we settle why do we stay why do we go back ? Because we haven't unpacked and gotten rid of unneeded stuff! Pain for some feels like protection. Because its familiar you are prepared what to expect and how to handle it.  Nobody likes to be caught off guard right? If we always knew what was happening ahead of time wouldn't that make life pretty boring? The day by day routine nothing new nothing exciting. It's time to unpack those bags and make room for the undated stuff. It's time to step out of the old bondage and lunge into something new and exciting. It's time to know you are worth being happy. We must know that God is Love and love doesn't hurt as many say but it's people that hurt. Put down those bags that hidden dirty embarrassing self destructive stuff. Throw it away and never ever pick it back up again! We only get one chance at this life why not live it too the fullest . 

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