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Truth Check ....

About two years ago myself and a dear friend decided that we were going to take telling the truth to another level. Now to be clear it wasn't that we lied to each other but there are those moments in friendship when we don't speak up. We don't speak up because we worry we will hurt the person or that the person will get angry. Contrary to all the cons we decided to push our friendship to the truthful limits! The reason we decided to do this you ask ? It was to better ourselves as the strong woman we proclaimed ourselves too be. So know matter what we agreed to tell each other the truth and be open to the criticism and correction if need be. Why did we decided to take the truth check challenge ? When you see yourself and those around you continually repeating the same mistakes , clueless to what the cause is remaining stagnant hurt and frustrated you become exhausted. Once you become tired destruction can be right around the corner because at this point your each Like what's the use or hey why not what the heck! So the truth journey begins, when I tell you as hard as it was for me it was one of my greatest accomplishments. We became closer as friends and we also learned about ourselves, which allowed for corrections to be made on a personal level. When I say we were all the way raw with one another there was no subject left untouched from family, friends finances what ever the case we dealt with it. Now we didn't sit around all day analyzing each other's every action but when the need presented its self we had a saying "truth moment" and the other knew what time it was.  Till this day we will still have are truth moments and it helps us to release those hard things, the stuff you carry that can weight you down because you don't want anyone to know. For us the truth challenge took us outside the box that every individual has and enabled for us too see another perspective. Do you think your ready for the Truth check challenge? Now let me say participate at your own risk a task of this magnitude can be challenging and every friendship/relationship may not be ready. if you do decide to have those "truth moments" make sure to do them in Love...
Love Never Fails

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