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Boredom is Dangerous

Beware of the boredom trap! Seems like when a person gets bored all the worst ideas come in there mind. You want to hang out with people you know you have no business, go places you know you shouldn't. Entertain things that other wise would not appeal to you. Getting bored will make you call that ex you couldn't stand ! Being bored can make you venture in to territory you never thought you would. Being bored can lead to dangerous situations. Being bored will have you settling for less than you deserve for a moment of entertainment. I wonder if somewhere deep down we secretly have a need for drama? That adrenaline rush that makes life seems
So intense ! Have we been programed to except drama and messiness as the new normal? I can only speak from personal experience to say boredom has gotten me in some situations I wanted to kick my own butt about! The next time you have a overwhelming feeling of boredom take notice of what are the first things that come to mind then DONT Do them! Put that cell phone down! Step away from the computer! Don't visit anyone you haven't talked too in the last 2-5 years! Lol you get my point it's all about being mindful of our thoughts. 
An action Begins with just 1 little thought...  

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